What’s the best way to get over someone you love?
15.06.2025 12:04
You need to start treating people like people, not achievements.
But do make sure you aren't only lost in their thoughts, cry but only when it’s been too much.
It's as harmful and futile to try to force forget, as much as it is to try to force get someone.
I've never read the book. What did Dorian Grey do that was so immoral and sinful?
~KSR
Because the one you cared for doesn’t care for you?
Or are you just jealous and he/she hurt your ego by rejecting you?
Is it true that most women like alpha males?
Because it hurts that they are not with you?
True love, if one sided, does hurt and we want to forget or get over people, just keep going on with life, keep living and you'll get over it.
Although if you're just a stubborn egoistic obsessed insecure immature teenager, grow up. Understand that you just feel that you can shift the orbit of the universe if you get your dream girl, BUT YOU CAN'T.
If you relate to all the first cases you need to, above all, accept, that they are not gonna either stay with you, and nor are they ginna get away from your past.
I love getting tired of loving that someone though…
Or because she doesn’t love you back?
Because you were just unlucky in love?
Because only you LOVED?
Or because they’re happy without you.
What are the pros and cons of living in Male, Maldives?
If you're the type of all second cases, then, acceptance is still a must but,
Stop fawning at others and work more on yourself, understand that getting that one person isn't the only thing.
Because they aren’t what they showed themselves to be?
Isn’t freedom of speech and expression an absolute right?
You're an obsessed/insecure/desperate simp/immature, depending on actions you did.
Because you are in sorrow without them?
Or you just over-cared expecting the same in return but are now disappointed?
Or because you had created a random perfect image of them and they just broke your delusion?
Focus on other things, and people, stay busy, stay lively, work, make goals, have hobbies, have friends and relax.
Now, while it may not be just a ‘she’ it might also be a ‘he’. What’s more important to know, is that, you can’t exactly delete someone from your head. Infact forcing.
Or because it hurts because they are with someone else?
If you do remember them occasionally and feel like crying, don't resist, cry, it'll gradually reduce on its own.
You want to forget him/her completely. But ever thought why? And what do you mean by getting over?